Brad Michael Wilder

Brad Michael Wilder, an attorney and long-time resident of Houston, TX, passed away on Friday, July 8, 2016. Those who knew Brad will agree that they were blessed to know him. He was the “glue” among his family and friends, whose charisma, self-deprecating humor, and fast wit made him a welcome presence. There was never any pretense with Brad, despite his intellect and accomplishments. He would routinely reject a handshake and give a bear hug instead. Indeed, as you read this, he’s hugging someone in heaven. Brad never met a stranger and had a gift for putting people at ease. He used his intelligence to give the gift of laughter. If there was ever an awkward moment, Brad would fill it with the levity of a hilarious response, onto which everyone else would pile. He was a sweet and gentle soul and as kind as anyone you would know. Brad worked hard to form close relationships with everyone. Many lasting friendships were formed among Brad’s family and friends due to his insistence that all be included. Brad was a deeply devoted father. His four children brought him so much joy and were his most treasured blessings. He loved spending time with them, whether it be coaching their teams, being a Den Leader, or spending time hunting and fishing. He simply loved being near them. Brad was also a deeply devoted friend. Those fortunate enough to have known him understand the depth of his friendship. No matter how busy his schedule, Brad always had time to comfort a friend. Somehow he could make you laugh while comforting you in your darkest hour. He will be deeply missed. Brad was born in Dallas, Texas on March 12, 1973. He graduated from De Soto High School in 1991 and went on to college at Midwestern State University, where he played football. He later transferred to Southwest Texas State University and graduated in 1995. Brad spent the next three years at South Texas College of Law, where he made many lifelong friends. He graduated from law school in 1999. Brad immediately went to work with the law firm of Hoover, Bax & Slovacek, LLP, where he quickly proved himself to be a shining star. After several years there, he made the move to work as in-house legal counsel with NCI Building Systems and later, Integrated Electrical Services. Brad eventually made his way back into private practice focusing on civil and commercial litigation. Brad is survived by his four beautiful children, Braden (11), Madelyn (10), Marlee (7), and Megan (3); his brothers, Bryan and Brett Wilder and their families; and his father, Weyland Wilder. He is preceded in death by his mother, Janet Marie Wilder. A funeral service will be held at 2 P.M. (Central) on Friday, July 22, 2016 at the Addison Funeral Home, 18630 Kuykendahl Road, Spring Texas, 77379. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to an account at Bank of America set up for the benefit of Brad’s children. If you are able to donate, please reference account number 4880 6408 2725 titled “Brett Wilder dba Wilder Kids.”